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Are these events only for one race?No. We welcome everyone. Discrimination of any kind goes against our ethos—and the law.
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When is the next event?Scroll down to our Upcoming Events section for the latest dates.
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How do I get in?Some events require tickets in advance; others accept payment at the door (cash or card). Please check each event page for details.
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Are drinks available inside?For Majority of our events, Yes. Drinks can be purchased from the venue’s licensed bar.
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What’s the last entry time?Usually 1 hour before the event ends. Please double-check the specific event info.
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Why is there a suggested age range?All adults (18+) are welcome. The suggested range reflects the typical age of attendees.
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Do I have to be attractive?No. But we encourage confident energy and a respectful vibe.
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What happens if I’m refused entry?We reserve the right to refuse entry—even if you have a ticket. If refusal isn’t for a reason listed on the website, we’ll issue a refund.
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Are condoms and lube provided?Yes, free of charge.
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Do I have to have sex?Absolutely not. You’re welcome to just chill, socialise, or enjoy the venue in your own way.
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Do I need a mask?Masks are optional. Some events offer complimentary masks. You can also bring your own.
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Do I have to get naked?No. Wear whatever makes you comfortable. Some guests go shirtless or strip down to boxers. A cloakroom is available if you want to change.
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Is the venue private?Yes. It’s a discreet, unmarked location with no signage outside.
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Is this legit?Yes. You can always contact us or the venue directly. For extra reassurance, some events allow payment at the door.
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Do I need ID?Yes—if you’re lucky enough to look under 25, or if the event specifies ID checks.
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Why does the ticket form ask for my name?So we can match you to the guest list if you lose your ticket. Use any name you like—it stays private.
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Are tickets refundable?No. Please read the full event details before purchasing.
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How discreet is the event?We do everything we can to keep things DL: No phones allowed (they’ll be checked into the cloakroom) Masks allowed Private, unmarked venue Security checks at the door While nothing is 100% foolproof, we’ve taken steps to protect everyone’s identity. Use your own discretion as well.
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Who’s going?Come and find out.
FAQs
SEXUAL HEALTH
INFORMATION
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DLPlugLondon teamed up with Prepster to bring you this information, because we believes it is important for our members to have good sexual health.
Good sexual health is more than just preventing disease; it’s about our wellbeing and having a positive approach to sex. We want you to have the sex you want, when you want, how you want and with who you want.This page outlines all the things you need to have sex which is good, safe and healthy for you and your partners.
CONSENT
Sexual consent is actively agreeing to participate in sex. Before having sex with anyone, you need to know that they want to have sex with you too. That includes if someone is high or drunk, someone cannot consent to sex if they are unconscious – even if they gave consent at the start. It is very important to be completely open and honest with whatever you want to do and don’t want to do, as giving and asking for consent sets boundaries and respect between sexual partners.
HIV
HIV stands for Human Immunodeficiency Virus and attacks and weakens the immune system. People living with HIV on effective treatment cannot pass HIV on. The only way to know if you have HIV is to have an HIV test, as symptoms may not appear for many years. If you think you might have HIV getting tested and treated will help you stay healthy and well.
To learn more about HIV, symptoms, causes, treatment, and more, go here: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/hiv-and-aids/
Testing for HIV
HIV tests are free and easy to do. Tests are available through NHS sexual health clinics, some other health centres (including GPs), and through the post.
To learn how often you should test, what different tests are available, where to go to test, go here: https://www.gmfa.org.uk/hiv-testing
To order a free and confidential HIV and STI kit delivered to a London address of your choice, visit: https://www.bp.shl.uk (Available in all London boroughs apart from Greenwich, Croydon, Hillingdon and Hounslow.)
Outside of London, you may be eligible for a free postal test from:
For why black men need to test go here:
https://www.gmfa.org.uk/mehimus-black-gay-men-why-we-need-to-test
PrEP
PrEP stands for Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis. It’s a pill taken before and after sex that stops someone who doesn’t have HIV from getting it. It’s the same type of pill taken by someone living with HIV to treat HIV. It can be taken daily or around a specific sex event. PrEP is almost 100% effective if it is taken as prescribed.
To learn about PrEP and how to get it go to: https://prepster.info/prep-faqs/
PrEP is currently only available for free in England through clinical trials. Thousands of people who are not on those trials buy their PrEP from online pharmacies. If you’re thinking of buying PrEP online, here’s how to do it safely:
https://prepster.info/buying-prep-online/
Treatment as Prevention (TasP)/Undetectable equals Untransmittable (U=U)
PrEP prevents HIV and so does HIV treatment. People living with HIV on effective treatment cannot pass on HIV. The treatment reduces the amount of HIV in the body. This both keeps the person with HIV healthy and makes it impossible to pass HIV on so long as the pills are taken every day.
To find out more, go here:
SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS
Sexually transmitted infections (STI's) are passed on from one person to another during sex. Most STIs are easily treated, and it's possible to get vaccinated agains some of them. Regular STI check-ups will ensure that STIs are treated quickly, do less damage to your health, and are less likely to be passed on to sexual partners.
To know why you should get tested, where you can get tested, how you can treat an STI and more, go here: https://www.gmfa.org.uk/about-stis
To order a free and confidential HIV and STI kit delivered to a London address of your choice, visit: https://www.bp.shl.uk (Available in all London boroughs apart from Greenwich, Croydon, Hillingdon and Hounslow.)
Outside of London, you may be eligible for a free postal test from:
For why black men need to test go here:
https://www.gmfa.org.uk/mehimus-black-gay-men-why-we-need-to-test
To find out info about all STIs and how to maintain good sexual health, go here: https://www.gmfa.org.uk/Pages/Category/stis
CONDOMS
PrEP, TasP and condoms all prevent HIV. Condoms are an effective way to reduce the spread of HIV and sexually transmitted infections, if used correctly and consistently.
To learn about where to get them, how to use them, effectiveness, the importance of different sizes, lubricants and more, go to:
VACCINATIONS
Vaccination is one of the most effective ways we have of preventing disease. A vaccination will protect you for several years, and sometimes for life, against an infection, including some infections that can be easily passed on when condoms are used. It’s recommended that men who have sex with men are vaccinated for HPV (the warts virus), and hepatitis A and B.
To learn what vaccines are available for sexually transmitted infections, and more go to: https://prepster.info/vaxster/